Parenting Coordinator & Decision Maker

Co-parenting after a divorce or separation can be challenging - especially in high-conflict situations where communication frequently breaks down. When ongoing disputes make shared parenting difficult, the parties may agree to Parenting Coordinator, a Decision-Maker, or both, to help reduce conflict and expedite resolution to disputes that would otherwise be resolved by the Court.

At AWH Family Law, we not only help parents understand and navigate the appointment process—we also accept appointments to serve as Parenting Coordinators (PCs) and Decision-Makers (DMs). Whether you are seeking to resolve conflict or avoid repeated court intervention, we bring clarity, neutrality, and structure to complex parenting situations.

What Is a Parenting Coordinator?

A Parenting Coordinator is a neutral third party appointed to help parents understand the terms of their court-ordered parenting plan. The Parenting Coordinator’s primary role is to assist with improving communication, reducing conflict, and encouraging the parents to resolve their disputes collaboratively. While they do not have the authority to make binding decisions, Parenting Coordinators act as facilitators, helping parents stay focused on the best interests of their child and navigate day-to-day disagreements more effectively.

A Parenting Coordinator:

Does not have decision-making authority
Helps parents resolve routine parenting disputes through facilitated discussion
Supports communication to help reduce ongoing conflict
Assisting the parties in realistically identifying the sources and causes of conflict including each party's contribution to the conflict, when appropriate
May be appointed by the court (in certain circumstances) or by agreement of the parties, for no more than a two-year term

We accept Parenting Coordinator appointments and bring a balanced, child-focused approach to these roles.

What Is a Decision-Maker?

A Decision-Maker has a more formal role than a Parenting Coordinator. Appointed only by mutual agreement of both parties, a Decision-Maker has limited authority as given to them by the parties to make binding decisions in areas where the parents cannot agree - without requiring a return to court for each dispute.

A Decision-Maker:

Must be appointed through a written stipulation by both parties
Can issue binding decisions on specific parenting issues (e.g., education, medical care, extracurriculars)
Acts within the scope of existing court orders and must prioritize the child’s best interests
Can help avoid costly and emotionally draining litigation
May serve up to two years per appointment

At AWH Family Law, we are available to serve as Decision-Makers, providing informed and impartial resolutions that respect the law and support the child’s well-being.

Do You Need a Parenting Coordinator or Decision-Maker?

High-conflict parenting situations can leave families stuck in repeated cycles of disagreement. PCs and DMs offer an alternative path - one that can reduce court involvement, minimize stress, and create a more stable environment for your child.

Our team can help:

Evaluate whether a PC or DM is right for your situation
Assist in requesting or objecting to an appointment
Represent you in matters involving a current PC or DM including de novo Motions/Hearings
Serve as your appointed Parenting Coordinator and/or Decision-Maker with professionalism, fairness, and focus on resolution

Supporting Your Family with Confidence and Care

At AWH Family Law, we understand the emotional and legal complexities that come with co-parenting conflict. Whether you’re requesting an appointment or seeking to resolve disputes as quickly and peacefully as possible, we’re here to help. And when appointed as Parenting Coordinator or Decision-Maker, we bring a balanced, child-focused perspective to every decision.

Contact us today to learn more about how we can support your family—whether through legal representation or direct appointment as a neutral third party.

*Disclaimer: The information provided on this page is for general informational purposes only and does not constitute legal advice. Every family law matter is unique. To receive advice specific to your situation, please contact our office to schedule a consultation.